A new day, a new fear … thank you for your kindness, and openness to receiving it.
It’s a brave thing
I’ve come to think
To be lonely when connections
Have been severed
To be without defenses
Which have caged us so long
Finding our steps into any of
Various paths marked in ways
Which defy our understanding.
In loneliness, we see
The strange for the strange
The fear for the fear
And then everything,
From the species of ladybug
Surprising us anew,
To the tree with its sinewy roots,
The person hobbling on the street
With the aid of a cane
Is no longer how we see it,
But what they are
(Because we are
What we are
Here / now / luminous
Waiting, or maybe not waiting
(To be is to be open
It is in the darkness that we wait)
For our approach
And our fragile hope.
- This poem was published on The Tattooed Buddha.
The Fading Mountain
The new moon is a mist behind clouds but I turn to the mountains in the near distance, on the other side of the very narrow river.
There’s a small rickety bridge that crosses it and last year they were building a second bridge not far away. Now it’s done. It’s not rickety yet, like the others, but it’s flimsy so there’s a lot of promise.
Now the sky is thick like you can touch it and it’s a dress from the Victorian Age made of endless folds of velvet. I want to watch the mountains go dark the way you want to watch water boil without ever taking your eyes away from the pot.
They say a watched pot never boils, but of course that’s not true. It’ll boil as sure as the sun rises everyday (so far that’s a sure thing, until one day the sun will just run out of energy and die). I’m not sure what that expression is trying to tell us, maybe not to be impatient but just to go on with life and let the proverbial water boil on its own?
Personally, I just think we don’t have the patience to watch water boil and are afraid to see this. The mind goes elsewhere and the body follows because we’re not as in control of ourselves as we’d like to think we are. If you’ve ever tried meditating, you’ll see how difficult it is to watch your breath go in and out, in and out, with full concentration. This is mind-training, and the mind is stubborn. It wants to be anywhere else so you start thinking about the past and future, all sorts of happy and bad things, and before you know it you’re anxious and miserable and the breath has been forgotten.
How I love the mountains of Laos, their curves and shapes and strength, and I want to watch them change in the night, all night. I want to watch this water boil. There’s a large mountain covered with trees, and next to it is a series of smaller mountains, with one darker one dominating that’s also covered in trees. Above these the sky is now several intoxicating shades of blue. I look and immediately I’m back to when I was here years ago, and how I felt so protected under these nurturing mountains, and how lonely I was then.
The mountains were everything. I see again: the sky is darker, but you can still discern the varying blues of the sky. The mountains behind the darkest one have faded into the background. The large mountain next to it has become a silhouette. I missed this in the space it took for nostalgia to grow.
I hear someone start to cry. I try to find her but I can’t. I think of loneliness again and now my attention has moved away once again from the mountains, which are almost gone now. But I remember these mountains, and I’ll keep on remembering them. You can feel them even as they disappear.